I have a problem i'm a virgin and now part of me feels like i should have sex whereas the other part of me is saying the opposite. Usually when i am with my boyfriend i feel like having sex with him but i would just hold myself. When i'm alone sometimes i feel like no i'm not ready maybe i should wait. I have been to several relationships and the guy would just dump me simply because i dont want to have sex with him. This thing has gone too far now, i don't want to be moving from one guy to another. What should i do? I am scared that if i don't have sex with the guy i am with he might do the same dump me.
Dear User, firstly TuneMe would like to congratulate you for keeping your virginity up-to this fur. Abstaining from sex have a wide range of benefits. that could include that you don’t have to worry about getting pregnant, Although there are many very highly effective methods of birth control available today, the only 100% absolute, most certain way to not get pregnant is to not have sex.Again, You’re less likely to get a urinary tract infection: Naturally, not having sex is going to drastically reduce your chances of getting a sexually transmitted infection, but abstaining from sex also makes it less likely that you’ll get a urinary tract infection. So we encourage you to abstain till you fill that it is the right time (especial after marriage). Once again, sex doesn't mean love, So if one break up with you because you do not have sex with him its cool because you have nothing to loose.
Dear user for you to enjoy sex you need to be sure that you are old enough to have sex – then, if it is what you want, make sure it is with a person you want.So just wait for the right time.
5 years, 3 months Ago
Miyanda31
Old enough and mature enough. The reason i believe some pple esp the youth engage in it is because of curiosity, peer pressure and not knowing what they want or who they are. Whether they fully understand what sex is. Whether they are seeking for just sex or to make love-
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I have a problem i'm a virgin and now part of me feels like i should have sex whereas the other part of me is saying the opposite. Usually when i am with my boyfriend i feel like having sex with him but i would just hold myself. When i'm alone sometimes i feel like no i'm not ready maybe i should wait. I have been to several relationships and the guy would just dump me simply because i dont want to have sex with him. This thing has gone too far now, i don't want to be moving from one guy to another. What should i do? I am scared that if i don't have sex with the guy i am with he might do the same dump me.
4 years Ago ReportRecent Replies
Tune Me Moderator
Dear User, firstly TuneMe would like to congratulate you for keeping your virginity up-to this fur. Abstaining from sex have a wide range of benefits. that could include that you don’t have to worry about getting pregnant, Although there are many very highly effective methods of birth control available today, the only 100% absolute, most certain way to not get pregnant is to not have sex.Again, You’re less likely to get a urinary tract infection: Naturally, not having sex is going to drastically reduce your chances of getting a sexually transmitted infection, but abstaining from sex also makes it less likely that you’ll get a urinary tract infection. So we encourage you to abstain till you fill that it is the right time (especial after marriage). Once again, sex doesn't mean love, So if one break up with you because you do not have sex with him its cool because you have nothing to loose.
3 years, 11 months AgoCharlieDee
I never enjoy sex...Wat cn i do to enjoy
5 years, 4 months Ago ReportRecent Replies
Tune Me Moderator
Dear user for you to enjoy sex you need to be sure that you are old enough to have sex – then, if it is what you want, make sure it is with a person you want.So just wait for the right time.
5 years, 3 months AgoMiyanda31
Old enough and mature enough. The reason i believe some pple esp the youth engage in it is because of curiosity, peer pressure and not knowing what they want or who they are. Whether they fully understand what sex is. Whether they are seeking for just sex or to make love-
5 years, 5 months Ago ReportRecent Replies
Tune Me Moderator
True, ''curiosity" destroy's young people.
5 years, 3 months Ago