I hate Valentine's Day - it's just way too much pressure for the guy.
If a guy's trying to save face, he'll try and give you some story about how people don't know what the meaning of the day is. That they don't know what it represents.
He'll go on about how it's become commercialized - just another money making holiday.
Those that think they're clever will go on about how people should show their love all the time - not just on one calendar day so that they can get it over and done with and then tick it off.
They'll scoff at people who measure how much they're loved by the stuff they get.
A guy might even tell you that he doesn't believe in it. That his love language is different; he cares more about spending time with his girl or doing something for her than buying something for her.
All of these reasons are just excuses. The truth is pretty simple. Valentine's Day is a big fat expense, and blowing your budget on one day when you've still got bills to pay and groceries to buy just isn't practical. Sorry ladies.
Is BadBoy right? Is Valentine's Day about love or is just about money?
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I say Valentine's Day is all about love ,the love that you show to a person you love it could be your girlfriend, partner or parents you show your appropriation to them for being in your life There's no pressure in that person who want to celebrate this day because everyone will accept everything you come with to them from that small thing you could afford to get for them and that thing symbolizes love, the love you have for them it's not about that money you use to buy the things you buy for them, it's about that thing you do for them in that particular day to show your love and you probably use money to buy that thing because you want to show your love and appropriate them. Valentine's Day is about love, a day that makes you show your love to that person you love or appropriate that's all
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Mthabsen
i agree with bhuty cz valentines day always lives people in jail or sometimes lives people in hospitals
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mnatis
No that's nt true my friend make things easier for u and that person u want to spend the day with. let's say I want to spend the Valentine's Day with my girlfriend I just call her tell her to visit me we'll spend the day at my house I'll buy things we'll eat during the day and just show I love her and I appropriate her for loving me and am sure she appropriate me too and for the things I do for her. how could that get u in trouble or end up in jail or hospital. u jst need to show the love u hold in ur heart for them that's all
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