I for one was sexually abuse 3times by different people i never got the chance to live as a virgin.I was raped at a tender age of about 7year to 13year.
I never got the chance to even tell anyone about which has caused an effect in my life i dont see myself good enough to be loved
Almost everyone I got to be intimate with leaves me once we do sex our relationship doesnt even take a week and it fades away
Dear User,
Thank you for seeking advise from us.
It is worth nothing that, what has happened to you is not your fault and for that you should not feel ashamed. I would like to recommend a counselling session, where you can talk to a health professional so you are able to move past your experience. It is not your fault that when you have sex with someone, they walk away from you. It is more of a problem about them than it is about you, don't allow guilt and shame to lead your life. You are worth more than what you have experienced.
We would like to facilitate a counselling session for you.
5 years, 1 month Ago
Miyanda31
.....continuation
to friends who don't know how to help you and eventually leave it at that.
I am happy to know that you had such a wonderful person to consult such as your grandmother and you were able to move out. Unfortunately some victims of sexual abuse do not have such a great support system and face the burden alone like you did when you did not move with your grandmother. Sometimes, one can open up to someone they find close and not get that support / open up to
Anonymous
I for one was sexually abuse 3times by different people i never got the chance to live as a virgin.I was raped at a tender age of about 7year to 13year. I never got the chance to even tell anyone about which has caused an effect in my life i dont see myself good enough to be loved Almost everyone I got to be intimate with leaves me once we do sex our relationship doesnt even take a week and it fades away
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Dear User, Thank you for seeking advise from us. It is worth nothing that, what has happened to you is not your fault and for that you should not feel ashamed. I would like to recommend a counselling session, where you can talk to a health professional so you are able to move past your experience. It is not your fault that when you have sex with someone, they walk away from you. It is more of a problem about them than it is about you, don't allow guilt and shame to lead your life. You are worth more than what you have experienced. We would like to facilitate a counselling session for you.
5 years, 1 month AgoMiyanda31
.....continuation to friends who don't know how to help you and eventually leave it at that.
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Miyanda31
I am happy to know that you had such a wonderful person to consult such as your grandmother and you were able to move out. Unfortunately some victims of sexual abuse do not have such a great support system and face the burden alone like you did when you did not move with your grandmother. Sometimes, one can open up to someone they find close and not get that support / open up to
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Shabas
Kubuhlungu, kunjalo nje kwamele kutsi utfole umuntfu longakululeka kuze utozama kwengcisa peso simo sekuhlukumeteka
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Tsepie
As for ma self, I find it hard to open up...iam not Free TTalker nje
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Lucia mantini
The best thing is to report crime
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Lucia mantini
Its a gud advise to report such issues like this or sharing with someone you love because most ppl die for depression
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Pearl
Abuse must stop
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Tenele
stop abuse!!!!
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Anonymous
Abuse shouldn't happen to anyone
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AyandaDlamini
#logoba.. Men should stop abusing woman
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Anonymous
Type your comment here...Indeed everyone who has been abused or in abuse right now need to talk to someone.... for them to be free from abuse slavery
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